''A lot is expected from a woman in this 21st century and very little credit is given in return'' Sonia Ogbonna says

Actot, IK Ogbonna's wife, Sonia, has shared her opinion on the gender equality debate that has gone on for a while now on social media. In a post she shared on her IG page, the mum of one said much is expected of women with little credit is given to them in return. She wrote''Jokers. Lol but y’all dont wanna talk about you NEEDING a woman to step up and take a part of “MALE RESPONSIBILITIES” and participate in hustle EQUALY (if not even more) as men do {cuz nowadays one person making bread can’t feed/sustain the whole family most of the time -meaning men partly failed in fulfilling their fundamental duty-sorry*notSorry fact only } or cuz you don’t want a babe who “just sits her ass at home and does nothing”(besides cooking,cleaning,raising kids,taking care of the whole home including you and maybe your parents too)yuck unattractive .You want her to hold you down when times get hard but she must do it with her head down & she can’t just have a mind on her own when it comes to making decisions as she must “submit to u and show respect” so someone won’t feel a less of a man. But then,still expect her to carry on with ALL THE DOMESTIC & NON DOMESTIC DUTIES the very same way your great grandmother from the village did.  Oh wow! Otherwise we judge- is she really a “wife material” ? Bye! I’m not a bitter lady and I love and respect men (I’m raising one duhh) but don’t ever neglect the fact that A LOT is expected from a woman in this 21st century (it’s not even realistic) and very little credit is given in return, (just childbirth & pregnancy alone-is it beans?lol) and then ,when we stand for ourselves- “feminists this ,feminists that”. We are indeed super humans. And im so sad when I see a fellow woman who is not aware how important is for us to support each other. And let me tell you straight up- I dont care how much money u make and how independent you are sis, or how strong you are to stand for yourself-you still deserve to be SPOILED and treated like a lady,a Queen that you are by any man who wants to tap into you blessings ,time and space.. Argue with ya whaaaat? you already know All Love The post ''A lot is expected from a woman in this 21st century and very little credit is given in return'' Sonia Ogbonna says appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.